Remember what day is today? Yes,
it’s my mother’s 9 years death anniversary… Don’t worry, I’m not sad :-)
My mother would not want to see me sad if she is still alive… She would
wanna to see me STRONG and WELL!!!
Thinking back of all the memories, I
could remember how she influenced me in so many many ways which made me
the GKC i am today…要有一個寬容的心,要珍惜現在所擁有的,要懂得感謝,要滿足 and so many more…
Honestly, I am glad of who I am today,
I’m a happy person and i will continue to be a better person! All these
while, I’ve been trying my best to to be an artist, an idol or a role
model hoping people would support me not only because of my looks… I’m a
hard worker who cherish life a lot! Always try to be a better person is
life’s long process and I love this challenges because this is what i
want in life. It’s such a coincidence that I am an artist so I could
influence some people but I’m not doing all these just because I am an
artist… I’m doing all these because this is what my parents taught me to
become and i enjoy that :-)
Unfortunately, I could not spend this
special day with my family… As an artist, i know I have to lose some and
gain some! I understand that and i know i need to make such sacrifices
worthwhile and that’s why I’ve got to make this day a very meaningful
day :-)
And guess what? I will be spending this
day with people who are of importance to me in my showbiz career :-) My
angels and of course, Fahrenheit and we really had FUN today!
Fahrenheit played a big role in my showbiz career…
When i think back about all the
memories, its really touching and unbelievable! I admit we may not be
the best pals but there is truly something special between us and that
special something is FOREVER!
U know what… The decision of whether or not to renew my recording
contract took me 2 years to decide. It was really a super hard decision
to make but I told myself sooner or later, I would still need to make
the decision and unfortunately at the end, I declined it!
One of the big main reasons is because my family is in Brunei… After 6
years in showbiz, I’ve learnt a lot and got to know myself much better!
In my life, I’ve always made priorities with what I do and after being
such a career-minded artist for 6 years, i realised its now time for me
to spent more time with my family! Honestly,I really hate t o do things
halfway as I don’t have enough time and I know at the end of the day I
will be unhappy and stressed with a working environment like that so I
decided to make a CHANGE!!!
Thus, 3 options for me…
If you want me to focus on FRH and stop filming, i can’t do it!
If you want me to focus on filming and
FRH, How about my family? I really sacrificed too much time during the
past 6 years and this has to stop!
If you want me to focus on both but skip some of FRH activities to
spend some time with my family, it will be very unfair to my brothers
and I wont be happy as well!
Thus, I finally decided to just focus on filming and spending more time in Brunei which I hope everyone could understand!
Whatever HIM decides in the future, there is no right or wrong
because everyone has their own way of thinking and they need to protect
what truly belongs to them.
Honestly, seeing 4 of us together might be more difficult in the
future but I will always remember that once there were 4 hardworking
guys who made FRH HAPPEN and I continue to hope they will shine in
whatever they do :-)
Another promise from me… I will try my best to request for
opportunities to perform together. I don’t care if it’s FRH + Wu Chun or
FRH! To me, it’s the performance of 4 of us! Hey, I still do believe
FRH concert doesn’t just end in Taiwan 2010, OK :-)
Quote to share
“Family life is the source of the greatest human happiness. This
happiness is the simplest and least costly kind, and it cannot be
purchased with money. But it can be increased if we do two things: if we
recognize and uphold the essential values of family life and if we get
and keep control of the process of social change so as to make it give
us what is needed to make family life perform its essential functions.”
Robert J. Havighurst
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