離上一篇網誌更新有一段時間了...

等很久了嗎?

是啊,我是有提到我33%的時間要留給家人...從一月中旬到四月中旬,我可以說將大部分的時間都花在和家人相處。然而,從五月開始,我就會有很忙的行程...電影即將開拍而且我需要宣傳另外兩部作品,還有其他的工作在等著我!在汶萊待了一段時間後,我知道要調整心態回那樣的工作量很不容易,必須要有強大的意志力,但我知道我可以做到的,而且一但我回到工作上,就會很認真專注的。當然,我需要你的力量和支持,OK!!!

你知道嗎?今天是特別的日子...

4月18日是我媽媽的生日。

 

九年前是最後一次和我媽媽慶祝她的生日。我還記得那天也不像其他的生日派對,我們每個人都很珍惜那個當下因為即使我們不願去相信,在我們的心裡深處都明白這可能是最後一年慶祝這個特別的日子。每個人包括我媽媽心裡都很悲痛但我們都盡全力佯裝堅強。

我們那年為她準備的禮物也和往常不同!我們買了一條圍巾因為她當時太瘦了,那條圍巾可以包裹好她的肩頸。我們也給她一個裱了框的相片集,裡面有著我們家人間最快樂的回憶,然後在家裡吃了一餐非常健康的圍爐火鍋。一件我們不希望發生的事情就是當她在切蛋糕拍照的時候,眼眶泛紅而且留下淚來。

這是一段我人生中最艱難的時刻,也因此,在她離開我們之後,我變得越來越強壯而且非常珍惜生命。

家人放在我生命裡的第一位。過去六年來我沒有許多時間可以陪伴他們,但我知道我必須改變不然以後一定會後悔!你們都知道,我最近都待在汶萊,我希望你們都可以諒解我的狀況而當然地,這不表示我會只關注在汶萊的生活!我只是想在還可以做決定時安排更好的時間規劃。當然有所犧牲是需要的但是只要我覺得值得,我就會去犧牲一部分,希望你們都能支持我的決定!

我知道當我不在的時候你們可能很想我,而且有些人知道我沒辦法出席一些活動的時候可能感到不開心,但請體諒我有自己的理由,而且我很想念我的家人就像你們想念我一樣 :-) 和你們分享,我非常開心有機會可以去探望我媽媽今年三次了,她的骨灰不是放在汶萊。我帶給她一些她最愛的零食和鮮花,更最重要的是我想和她分享我的近況!我讓她知道是有這樣超級好的媽媽才有現在這個超級的吳吉尊!人們常常跟我說我媽媽若還在世一定會為我感到非常的驕傲,但沒人知道我有多麼驕傲我是我媽媽的兒子!

戴爾‧卡內基曾經說過:「成功是得到你想要的;快樂是想要自己得到的。」很多人或許希望我能挑戰自己更加成功,但我知道我媽媽想要我可以去接受我已經擁有的一切,所以請讓我繼續保持「平衡」,我保證會盡全力顧好雙方面的!

小分享:不會感到人生的甘甜,如果沒有經歷過痛苦。

(中文翻譯: 尊樺開心酒店)

 

Quite a while since my last blog… 

Been waiting for it? 

Yeah, I did mention 33% of my time is for my family… From mid Jan til mid April, I can say most of my time was spent with my family… however, from May onwards, I will have a busy schedule…Filming starts soon and I need to promote my 2 films and many other jobs are waiting for me too! After staying in Brunei for quite sometime, I know it won’t be easy for me to adjust myself to all the workload that is about to come but with a strong willpower, I know I can do it and once I am back to work, I will take it seriously and FOCUS and of course, i need your POWER and SUPPORT ok!!! 

You know what? 

It’s a special day today… 

18th of April is actually the birth date of my mother.

 
幫阿尊rephrase: 4月18日, 媽, 生日快樂! I am so proud to be your son!

9 years ago was the last time celebrating my mum’s birthday with her and I could still remember that day as not the same as any other birthday celebrations. Everyone of us cherished that moment because as much as we don’t wanna believe it, deep inside our heart, we knew it could be the last year celebrating this special day. All of us including my mum were in great pain in the inside but we tried our best to be strong on the outside. 

Our gifts for her during that year was different from what we have given her in the past too! We bought a scarf because she was too thin during that time and the scarf was for her to help her cover her wrinkled neck. We also gave her a photo frame with pictures showing happy memories of our family and had a very healthy Steamboat meal at home. One thing that we did not wish to happen was when her eyes turned red with tears when she was cutting her cake and taking pictures. 

It was one of the most difficult moments in my life and thus, after she left us, i just got stronger and stronger and cherish life more than ever! 

Family became the first priority in my life… I haven’t got much time to accompany them in the past 6 years but I know that I have to change before I regret in the future! As you all know, since I have been staying in Brunei most of the time recently, I hope all of you can understand my situation but of course, it doesn’t mean that I will just focus on my life in Brunei! I just wanna make a better use of my time while i still can and yeah, some sacrifices need to be made but as long as I think it’s worth it, I am willing to sacrifice that little bit and hope all of you support me! 

I know some of you might miss me when I’m away and some of you might be unhappy if I don’t turn up in a particular event but please understand that I have my own reasons and I really miss my family like how u all miss me sometimes :-) To share with you, I’m so grateful to have the chance to go worship my mum 3 times already this year as my mother’s ashes is not placed in Brunei. I brought her some of her favourite snacks and flowers and most importantly, I wanna update her with my life! I let her know that a Super Mum like her got a Super Child like GKC! People always tell me my mother will be very proud of me if she is still alive but no one really knows how proud I am to be my mother’s son! 

Dale Carnegie once said, “”Success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get.” Many people might want me to challenge myself to be successful but i know my mother want me to accept what’s given to me so please allow me to keep a ‘Balance’ and i promise to do my best on both parts! 

Quote to share: –

We wouldn’t know the sweet moments in life unless we had the pain!

 

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